!NO ONE IS A FAILURE!

 

I wrote this quote because it reflects on my life. My own Family called me a "Failure" and declared me as the "Black Sheep" of the family, all because I fell in-love with the wrong girl, and unfortunately she got pregnant for me, well I am not saying it was unfortunate because of the pregnancy, but it was because I realized that I was in-love with the girl. I was young and stupid at that time not to have realized that she had been unfaithful to me countless times with lots of guys including people I conceded as my friends who were close to both of us, "SHE FOOLED ME" you can say that, but you can't also blame me for loving someone dearly that I even had plans to marry.

 

All my life I have been in relationships with five (5) girls, and she was the fourth, and the first girl I have ever introduced to my mum as my lover. Of course my mum lives in Hamburg Germany, far away from to guide me through such things as her little Dee, but she was just a call away.  

Telling my mum about a girl that I've met and even want to marry, got my mum astonished, at the fact that I could finally gather the courage to tell her about a girl that I've met and want to marry, all she said was, "Are you Sure she is right for you?" there is no greater feeling than a mother's instinct.

I said back to her, " Yes mama she is the one because I'm in-love with her" she said ok my son, I want to meet her personally when I come back to Ghana for your brother's wedding in December 2015.

So now, it's December 21st and my mum is in Accra, thinking "WOW So finally mama is going to meet my girl" was very happy about that, she finally met her on the 23rd which I didn't know of, because the plan was for both us to meet my mum together, and also at that time my mum didn't know about the pregnancy yet, cos I wanted to tell her face to face whiles the three of us were together, but my girl at that time couldn't wait till I was there to meet mum together, little did she know that my mum didn't like her the first time she saw picture, and this is not about whether she was beautiful or not, as I said earlier, "There is not greater feeling than a mother's instinct".

 So she went over to my house to meet my mum, with that hopes to win her heart, I later got a call from my girl at that time, crying on phone heavily, and raining insults on me which I didn't like and didn't understand so I hanged up on her, she later called back an hour time to then tell me that she went to my house met with my mum and that she had insulted her and sacked her.

That got me shocked, cos I know my mum would not do something like that, to anyone, so I hanged up on her again cos at that point to me, she was accusing my mum wrongly and that got me angry as well, so I called my mum a minute after I dropped that call, and asked her what happened, my mum breathed out heavily and said to me, son we will have a talk when you get home from work.

My mum sat me down after I closed from work later that evening, and said to me that I should break up with my girl at that time, you can imagine, I was so heart broken, I felt like dying, I asked her why and she said it doesn't matter to me what happened, in the afternoon, so I did not question her again, and finally told her about the about the pregnancy, she said back to me that, my son, I already know about it, "your girlfriend blasted it out to me this afternoon after I blatantly told her both of you won't be getting married cos I don't like her" I think she did that in pain, so it followed with insults on me, so I had sacked from our house, and she left here crying.

I then I understood why she called me and was crying on the phone like a baby, and raining insults me as well. I then asked my mum again, "mum you said she did what?, insulted you?" she answered, "yes my son" all of a sudden every bit of love I had for my girl at that time, drained from me, and I felt nothing for her but hate only.

So I called her and broke up with her whiles she was pregnant, and even told her out of pain that, I even doubt the baby she is carrying is mine, and hanged  up on her, and immediately switched my phone off, and tried to sleep, of course I would be going to work the following day, so I needed to sleep even though it was late almost close to midnight.

I finally slept at 1:15am, and woke up at 3:49am cos I still couldn't sleep, so I switched my phone back on, and saw about 1 text message from her, and 9 other messages from different unknown contacts, with he massage reading, "You doubt the child I'm carrying is yours right? we shall see", well, obviously that was a threat. I showed it to my mum and brothers the following day, and my brothers advised me to report it to the police as well cos it was a threat, which I did not do cos I felt this was a domestic issue that should be discussed at home and not at the police station.

Story Continues...............

when I read the other text messages from the other unknown contacts, and even one from her Ex-boyfriend whom she has a daughter with already before I met her.

Thanks for Reading!

Next part will drop soon.

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~Dee~